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Rob Kotecki's avatar

I understand how many people love sharing themselves and their process, but it makes me livid that we don't allow more room for those that don't. My personal life isn't for sale, and I feel like I'm wasting an audience's time with my raw work. I'm desperate to do my best work and find the best way to advocate for that. Honestly, I love adding mystery and "friction" to that process. For me, that feels natural. That feels authentic. When I wrote about the perils of the filmmaker-as-influencer model, I was thinking about this lack of mystique, but felt it was a concept so long discarded it didn't make sense including. So thanks for proving me wrong.

Piotr Niedzieski's avatar

If there is one advice I've always hated it was to "share your process". I never was that much interested in anybody's "process" (except the greatest of greats, but even then, it was not that much about "process" and more about craft) that it always baffled me why would anybody be ever interested in mine.

Plus, I've always loved the mystique of the Golden Era of Hollywood - everything felt elevated, dreamy, magical. Now everything has been reduced to mumblecore aesthetics - very unattractive.

And while I am a naturally gregarious person in general, having a somewhat mysterious, elevated, heightened presence feels very appealing to :)

So thank you for writing that!

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